Monday, May 6, 2013

Pre/Post Surgery

Found out from Doctor Ellagala on April 8th that all my back problems, pain, etc was from a birth defect... I was floored. I always believed it was from a fall down some steps when I was 18.

On April 16th...our wedding anniversary...I had surgery. Two rods and four screws were put in to fuse my L5 to my S1. Doctor Ellagala said once he was in it was better than he first thought. Some of the bone had actually started to grow and so he didn't have to go any where near the nerves. I don't know exactly what it all meant but he said it was good news.

I had a huge amount of pain after but I was able to leave the hospital the day after the surgery. I have a brace to wear when I am not laying down. I go to my post-op appointment on May 15.

Two weeks after and I'm feeling much better. I still have some pain but its getting better. I went to the Heart of Virginia Saturday and then went to the fire works that night and over did it a bit. The last couple of days I have had a lot of pain in my left hip. But I'm still glad I went because I had a good time.

I'm hoping that I'm pain free very soon. The house is so disgustingly dirty that I'm getting sick of looking at it. I have a vision of what I want my home to be and I can't wait for it to be that. The home I've always dreamt of. Michael cleaned up some today and it does look better but it's not even close to what I want it to be.

I am very worried about Andrew. He is back on his methadone and it is effecting him very badly. The side effects are:

feeling anxious, nervous, or restless;
sleep problems (insomnia);
feeling weak or drowsy;
dry mouth, nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, constipation, loss of appetite; or
decreased sex drive, impotence, or difficulty having an orgasm.

He is experiencing most, if not all, of these.

Monday, February 11, 2013

Feb 10 2013

Let's see...what happened on this day... Didn't go to church. Mom sent a text saying she was too tired so I went back to sleep.

Andrew and I went to Lowe's to get a heat tape...the stupid water was froze again. I left the tap in the bathroom dripping but evidently it didn't help. We also looked at lights for over the kitchen sink. Then we ran to Walmart to get curtain rods and I found some perfect white and purple sheer curtains that are perfect for the bedroom. We also bought some white sheers for the living room.

When we got home Michael went under the house and installed the heat tape. We need to get some more insulation. We bought 25 feet of it but we need about 5 more feet. Andrew hung up the rods and curtains. We are using the blue curtains from Texas and they look ok. In the bedroom we are using the black curtains and they look good. I need to get mom's sewing machine from Heather so I can shorten the sheers in all the rooms.

For dinner we had Jenn and Becca over. Jenn is Michael's girlfriend and Becca is David's girlfriend. We had nachos for dinner. Jenn had never had pineapple with nachos so I wanted her to try it. She liked it.

Then Andrew and I went to bed. We finally finished watching Batman. It only took us 4 nights. Then we watched some Little Britain on Netflix. Then we made love and I went to sleep. I think Andrew was up most of the night. He has not been sleeping much lately. I do worry about him.

That's all folks...